When I served in Hong Kong as a missionary, one of the Chinese cultural traits we learned was that one always gave and received gifts with both hands. Somehow I connected this tradition with having an undivided heart (a heart that is whole). When I looked online, I didn't find anything to support my supposition. One of the reasons I found on the internet for giving with both hands was to show that one did not have a weapon. Personally, I prefer my own idea that giving gifts with two hands represents wholeheartedness.
Being wholehearted in our spiritual lives requires that we love God and love our neighbors. Mark reminds us of the first great commandment to love the Lord with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength. And follows up with the second great commandment to love our neighbors as ourselves. (Mark 12:30-31)
I'm borrowing some ideas from a recent address, "The Crux of the Cross" delivered by Jared Halverson at the Restore conference that I attended recently. It's one of those addresses that I want to reread and ponder. At this point, all I have are my notes trying to catch the gist of what he was saying, but often losing my way as I captured half of his thoughts while he moved on to the next idea.
Being wholehearted requires that we learn to live in the contraries of our lives, that we are seeking both truth and harmony, a destination (heaven) and an approach (peacemaking). Taking up my cross daily to follow Christ requires me to bear the beams of love by engaging in communities where I practice loving all my fellowmen.
"Teach me your way, O LORD, that I may rely on your faithfulness; give me an undivided heart, that I may fear your name." Psalm 86:11, NIV
I look forward to reading the comments of fellow Spiritual Journey travelers regarding wholehearted, Ruth's word for this year. Our Spiritual Journey Thursday community is an open group. All are welcome! Join us in sharing your thoughts on the theme for a given month.
Ramona, I am delighted to open my day with your post on wholeheartedness. My night was not a simple sleep and there quite a bit of strange dreams but here I am soothed by your words. I never knew you were a missionary but it makes sense that you started life with this calling. This line caught my eye: "Being wholehearted requires that we learn to live in the contraries of our lives..." Well said. Peacemaking is a beautiful approach. I think the little girls in my life have brought a sense of wonder and peace. This weekend was all set with a visit but COVID stopped that event.
ReplyDeleteThanks for this Psalm verse: "Teach me your way, O LORD, that I may rely on your faithfulness; give me an undivided heart, that I may fear your name." Psalm 86:11, NIV Today, I will change my day into an undivided heart day. May your heart be filled with family events. Blessings to you for a lovely post.
Hi Ramona, this is Karen. I want to thank you for reminding me of these verses. Sometimes even the ones we know need to be reconsidered. I like that you mention living in the contraries. I am thinking of that also. Best to you.
ReplyDeleteRamona, I definitely like your reasoning behind giving a gift with both hands, To me, that signifies that one is giving of oneself without holding anything back which means the gift is being given wholeheartedly. Bob
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