Wednesday, June 4, 2025

Spiritual Journey Thursday: Summering

"Since retirement, summer no longer has the delicious allure of a respite from the hectic days of teaching. My move to NC has put me in the thick of summer humidity and mosquitoes after 26 Seattle summers. (Can you tell that I'm finding it hard to embrace summer in my new state?) This theme is an invitation to each of you to help me find "summer love". Do you have particular spiritual rhythms for summering? Is there a book out there like Katherine Mays Wintering for summer?"
 
I've spent a lot of time musing about summer ever since I sent out this prompt for June. I borrowed this sentence from a summer book catalog: 
 
"Long summer days call for
 slowing down, 
recharging, and 
reconnecting with what matters most."
  
 This list is my attempt to create a feasible summer rhythm.

Welcome mornings with breakfast, a walk outside, and quiet reflection.
Plan ahead to avoid the heat of the day whenever possible.
Embrace fresh produce by visiting farmers' markets.
Let summer be a season for slowing down.
Finish my Storyworth book. 
 Watch more movies.
Read more books.
Nap as needed.

 I look forward to reading your summering posts.
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When I wrote this post on Wednesday night, I left off two important parts of my summer rhythm. I'm taking a trip in August to immerse myself in Seattle's summer and reconnect with friends. 
And just yesterday, I learned about an online book group that is reading (I'll be rereading) Gracing by Hannah Packard Crowther. I look forward to revisiting this book that I love.
 
Back cover of the book:
A lovely invitation: 
"...living in heaven while standing on earth." 

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Tuesday, June 3, 2025

Slice of Life: Haiku for a Grand Morning!

Perfect pirate pose
Purple potion conjurer
Pal of picture books
 
 

(This last pic wasn't taken today. It's from last week when Ollie found the missing library book. But we did read three books twice followed by a third reading of a fourth book this morning.)

Saturday, May 31, 2025

Poetry Friday on Saturday: Poetry Unbound

Poetry Unbound: 50 Poems To Open Your World by Padraig O Tuama finally arrived in the digital format from Libby. I'm in love and all I did was read the Introduction and the first poem. This is not a book that I'm content to read digitally and return to the library. The poems deserve to be highlighted, reread, dogeared, and savored

I'm in Winston-Salem with my daughter celebrating an upcoming significant birthday. We have plans to visit two indie bookstores today, so I'm hoping one of them has Poetry Unbound. For now, I'll share my favorite quote from the Introduction: 

"A poem can be like a flame: helping us find our way, keeping us warm." 

This quote reminds me of a favorite poem, "Fire" by Amy Ludwig Vanderwater that I found in Booklinks and shared in a 2017 NPM blog post. I love the opportunity to gather with poetry friends to "warm our hands with poems" each week, even if I sometimes arrive on Saturday.

Join us at the poetry playground with this week's host, Karen Edmiston

Thanks, Karen, for hosting!

Tuesday, May 27, 2025

Slice of Life: Rewards of a Slow Stroll!

Sometimes a slow stroll lets you discover more, like this creature featured from a recent walk!

 

Tiny little wonder

So cleverly camouflaged 

 Leap to the left, please!  


Tuesday, May 20, 2025

Slice of Life: Learning a New Trick!

You're never too old to learn a new trick. That's why librarians deserve to be your best friends! They know the tricks and they will share them with you.

When I visit my local branch, I always visit the display just inside the front door first. This month was a focus on Asian Pacific Islander Heritage month. I love that our library features adult books, middle grade titles, and even picture books as part of this focus. 

Then I pop over to the new kid books' display table. I love to find books for my grandsons and I still love to read middle grade books. Recently the table was gone! Sometimes they need the table for activities in their meeting room. When that happens, they move this display to the top of a shelf near the periodicals which is definitely not centrally located. Maybe they need someone to donate a table!

I always stop by another display table with a thematic focus. The last time I was in, it was mysteries. Then I head to the new book shelves for grownups which include fiction and non-fiction books (and large print). That's my next-to-last stop before I pop over to library holds and then I check out my books.

I recently attended a Southern book club meeting at our library (not because I need another book club in my life, but) because they were reading a book that I borrowed years ago and the meeting provided the nudge I needed to finally read my brother's copy of A Reading Life by Pat Conroy. 

After the meeting, I enjoyed chatting with the librarian about middle grade book titles and that's when I discovered that our library has a section for Y (youth) shelved near the young adult books. What a great idea! Readers of a certain age aren't stuck in the children's section searching for titles they might love. They have their own section! This discovery added another stop to my library visits. 

I can't leave without sharing three books I found on recent library visits thanks to wonderfully arranged displays in the library. 

The Tenth Mistake of Hank Hooperman comes highly recommended from Melissa, a former teaching colleague, who frequently shares middle grade titles with me (I do the same for her).

My Book and Me is a wonderful tribute to the joy of a favorite book. Check it out from the library, but you'll definitely want to purchase a copy for your own collection..

Ten-Word Tiny Tales of Love by Joseph Coelho and 21 Artist Friends made me wish I could share it with students and discover their stories from the ten-word tiny tales and illustrations. It would be a perfect book to share with students in a creative writing class or with any child who loves to write stories.

Let's give a "Hip, Hip, Hooray" for the libraries and librarians in our lives!

Thursday, May 15, 2025

Poetry Friday: Where I'm From


Welcome to the poetry playground. I love the glee and exuberance of the children in this photo. I look forward to reading your posts.

Last month, I challenged our memoir writing group to write a poem for April. I shared George Ella Lyon's "Where I'm From" as a mentor poem. I've had students write these and dabbled in the format, but this is the first time that I've completed one of my own. 

I was talking with someone from another writing group that I challenged to write family stories in 2025. She was surprised to hear me say that writing is hard for me. I actually committed to finishing this poem for Poetry Friday so I would have a set deadline for finishing.  It's still a draft, but I'm offering it here as my current effort. 

 

                  Where I’m From 


I am from the green glider in the front yard,

from Uncle Wiggily’s board game and Chatty Cathy.

I am from a simple gray three-bedroom home

with Daddy’s long-dreamed of family room addition.

 

I am from marigolds, princess feathers, red roses,

from the pink crepe myrtle and showy mimosa trees.

I am from a garden that occupied ¾ of the backyard

with rows of potatoes, tomatoes, green beans, and weeds.

 

I am from hanging laundry on the clothesline,

from sweeping the floors and weeding the garden.

I am from walks to the library with best friend, Dortha,

with a stop at Rexall Drug for strawberry ice cream cones.

 

I am from Hawthorne and William Gay Elementary Schools,

from the junior high Mustangs and high school’s black and gold

I am from Mrs. Truttman’s creation of  “The Sugar Plum Tree,”

from Mrs. Lewallen’s adopted ship and memorized poems.

 

I am from Mrs. Frew’s split class with the addition of Charlie,

from learning some Braille and setting up math problems.

I am from Mrs. LeFlore’s newspaper from the Middle Ages,

from 6th grade graduation and “We’ll Remember Always.”

 

I am from Mrs. Long’s health classes (Have Another Cancer Stick!),

from Mrs. Massaro’s French classes and evening program,

I am from Mrs. Thrasher’s prep for Southeastern’s competitions,

from BFF Jan’s pledge to write a tear jerker in my senior yearbook (she did).

 

I am from grandmothers, Ella Martin and Martha Ada Young,

from Duff rancher and Scifres preacher grandfathers.

I am from morning Sunday School and evening Sacrament meetings,

from home study seminary and Gold and Green Balls.

 

I am from Primary on Thursdays and Mutual on Wednesdays,

from salt dough villages and scattered Israel on a bath towel.

I am from Billie Thompson’s Beehive class in the kitchen,

from recreational singing and square-dancing lessons.

 

I am from Scifres family reunions at Platt National Park,

from sleeping on pallets when visiting cousins,

I am from listening as grownups play Moon in the kitchen,

from loving the laughter and stories they told.

 

I am from a Dad who could fix anything and read my history books,

from a seamstress Mom who made Velma’s and my wedding dresses.

I am from Dad’s, “When you’re out of bananas, you’re out of groceries,”

to Mom’s Labor Day proclamations, “We are turning over a new leaf!”

 

I am from biscuits & gravy and chicken & dumplings,

from Aunt Edna’s fudge and Aunt Ruby Dee’s chocolate pies.

I am from Aunt Nan’s chilled glasses for root beer floats,

from blackberry cobbler and Great Grandma’s chocolate roll.

 

I am from summers in Tulsa with Velma’s growing family,

from sister Kay’s love of books passed on to me,

I am from brother Karl, the best friend any girl could have,

from siblings scattered across four states, but forever good friends.

 

I am from Ellis and Lillian, parents who taught by example,

from front yard waves with love & tears at the end of a visit.

I am from parents who loved fiercely, but left us too soon,

from their love that surrounds, supports and sustains me.

 

 - Ramona Behnke, draft

 

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Tuesday, May 13, 2025

SOL: What's Saving Me Right Now!

On my morning walk, I listened to Emily P. Freeman's podcast and decided to follow her format for naming what's saving her life right now. "It's time for our seasonal episode of What's Saving My Life Right Now on The Next Right Thing podcast. It could be anything from a favorite product to a spiritual practice, a fun new TV show, or a meaningful relationship. When it comes to naming what we love this spring, everything counts."

In no particular order, here are six things saving my life right now.

1. I listened to our book club book, The Small and the Mighty, read by the author, Sharon McMahon. I loved it and learned so much!

2. This middle grade book, The Undead Fox of Deadwood Forest by Aubrey Hartman

It's my dessert after finishing two nonfiction books for my book clubs. Nonfiction is not my jam, so it was difficult that both book groups had chosen nonfiction for May. I Just picked up  The Undead Fox of Deadwood Forest this afternoon. I can already tell it will be a new favorite!

3. Watching a feel-good movie, "Nonnas", on Netflix

4. Morning walks

5. Taryn's chocolate chip cookies, always a favorite

6.  Picture books - Posted this on IG three days ago: 

"I read this children's book (eBook) to myself just before going to sleep last night. I may have started a new tradition. A lovely children's picture book might be just what I need before bed during our troubled times.By Akiko Miyakoshi, Little Shrew celebrates pockets of joy in three lovely chapters. Get it for the children in your life or for yourself!" #picturebooks

Did you notice that three of the six items saving my life are books?  

What's saving your life right now?