Tuesday, May 23, 2023

Slice of Life: My Four-Year Old Grandson Captures Beauty for Me

One of my favorite ways to enjoy the world is to watch nature in all her seasonal glory. I frequently comment on the beauty around us as I drive around. Last fall, one of my grandsons was with me as we stopped to snap pics of several beautiful trees decked out in fall splendor. 

A few days later, this same grandson was my passenger when I commented on a particularly beautiful tree and bemoaned the fact that I did not have time to take a picture. 

His reply, "No worries, Grandma. I'll take a memory pic for you." And with that, he pointed his pretend camera and snapped away. 

I took him to preschool yesterday and commented on a particular shade of springtime green that I love. Today as we headed to the park (or the playground as his 22-month old brother insists on calling it), I commented again on the springtime greens and the beautiful rhododendrons that surround us in so many varied colors. I found myself wondering aloud about whether our new home in North Carolina would have the same springtime blossoms and luscious shades of green. 

He piped up from his third row seat in the van, "It's okay, Grandma. I'm taking memory pictures for you." And so I continued driving to the delighted sound of his pretend camera snapping pics of the beauty surrounding us. 

Nothing beats this Grandma gig!

Friday, May 19, 2023

Poetry Friday: Stunning Picture Book

Poetry Friday is hosted today by Janice Scully at Salt City Verse. I've been an  infrequent visitor to Poetry Friday of late, but a picture book I picked up on my holds shelf this week is exquisite and deserves to be shared far and wide.  

It is Joy Harjo's poem, "Remember" illustrated by Caldecott Medalist Michaela Goade. This has long been a favorite poem of mine. I'm thrilled to see it in a picture book format. Check out the #BNStorytime with Joy Harjo reading the book accompanied by Michaela Goade's magnificent illustrations. You might also enjoy this PBS Kid Read Along with Poet Laureate Joy Harjo! which includes a reading of the poem (without the illustrations) and a few interview questions as well. As a fellow Oklahoman, I was excited when Joy Harjo was named our nation's Poet Laureate in 2019. I am thrilled to share this new picture book and hope you'll check it out soon.

Tuesday, May 16, 2023

Slice of Life: Springtime Splendor!

Spring is my second favorite season of the year (after fall which I totally adore). I frequently stop to capture spring splendor on my phone. And it's all around us when we take the time to pause and notice. Here's a round-up of pics I took from this last week. 

 

  Rhododendrons at the preschool

Cherry blossoms outside the hair salon

 Blossoms on a walk with grandson

Lilacs in the front yard


Rhododendrons in daughter's neighborhood

(I insisted she stop the car so I could capture this shot.)

Wisteria on a walk with friends

 I love capturing the glories of nature with the occasional human subjects too.

Here's my favorite family pic from last week:

Daughter and two of her boys at an afternoon Mariner's game! 

Tuesday, May 9, 2023

Slice of Life: Adventure Awaits

Last July we moved from our home of 25 years to be closer to our daughter. It was hard saying goodbye to our home. However, I've been able to maintain my friendships since we're only 25 minutes from our former community. I still return for haircuts, book club, and the occasional birthday celebration with friends. 

It has been fun to watch spring arrive in this new setting. I took several pictures this past week and decided to save them for this goodbye post. I'll miss our blue rental house with its yellow door. I'll miss the trees in the back yard that I can see from the bedroom window. I'll miss the camellia welcome at the door and the the beautiful azalea bordering the sidewalk. I'll miss the colorful blossoms across the street and the tulips next door.

 

Our upcoming move is 2,770 miles from our current home in the Pacific Northwest. Our daughter, her husband, and the three grandsons are relocating to Greensboro, North Carolina and we're following them across the country. I've never even been to North Carolina! I'm looking forward to living in a new-to-me state. I'm looking forward to a new home. I'm looking forward to experiencing the seasons in this new setting and sharing my discoveries. 

I thought this move was so much farther than our move 26 years ago from Texas to the Pacific NW, but a quick check revealed this move is just 434 miles farther than our earlier move. I'm trying hard to not think about all that we're leaving behind and focusing instead on the adventure that awaits.

Sunday, May 7, 2023

Spiritual Journey Thursday: Shall We Dance?

Chris at Horizon 51 is hosting us this month with the prompt, Shall we dance?

I immediately thought of our favorite local musician, Nancy Stewart, who hosts a Maypole Dance in the park each year. Here's Nancy's pic and report from Instagram of this year's event. 

 
I've never been much of a dancer myself, but I had a delightful partner four years ago. We were eating outside at Pagliacci's Pizza and listening to the strains from Music in the Park across the street. When we moved to the park after dinner, Jack invited me to dance with him. 
At two years of age, he was my youngest dance partner until yesterday when I asked Jack's youngest brother, Ollie, to dance with me. He took me by the hand and led me to his parent's bedroom. It took me a few moments to figure out the two words he kept repeating, "Turn on, turn on, turn on." I finally figured out that he wanted me to ask Siri to turn on the music. Unfortunately, I don't have a pic of mine and Ollie's dance to the music Siri provided for us. But Ollie is now my record-breaking, youngest dance partner at 21 months of age. 
 
There's something very special about dancing with my grands. We twirl, we spin, we sing along in pure joy and delight. 

As I was thinking about this theme, I pulled a favorite picture book off the shelf. It's one that I enjoyed sharing with my students each year around Mother's Day.
 
". . . Mama would say:
'Bless the world 
it feels like
a tip-tapping
song-singing
finger-snapping 
kind of day.
Let's celebrate!'
And so we did."
 
The mother and daughter dance through each of the seasons. But my favorite parts of the book are the "And afterward . . . " sections, the things that occur after the dancing, You'll have to read the book!  
 
Thanks, Chris, for inviting us to this joyful celebration of dance for the merry month of May.

Thursday, April 27, 2023

Poetry Friday: Adoration

I went to grandson's classroom on Thursday to celebrate Poem in Your Pocket Day. I donned my apron of many pockets filled with poems to share with the class. On the way home, I kept stopping to capture spring pics and felt inspired to write this ode to spring.  

Ruth, who blogs at There is no such thing as a God-forsaken town, is hosting Poetry Friday this week with two wonderful poems about chairs and an invitation to pull up a chair and sit a while. Be sure to stop by and add your poetic fun to the round-up.


Adoration

 

Any short jaunt

requires attempts

to capture beauty. 

 

The blossoms call,

our days are numbered.

Lime green leaves 

wave me over.

Brilliant red requires

me to stop and revel.

Camellias provide

a doorstop welcome.

Blue skies wrap  

me in wonderment. 


Spring surrounds

and envelops me

in marvelment. 

 

- Ramona Behnke

Saturday, April 8, 2023

SJT and Poetry Friday: Hymns of My Heart

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This month’s Spiritual Journey gathering is with Ruth 
 
 Margaret at Reflections on the Teche is hosting 
this week's round-up of poetic goodness
All are welcome each Friday as folks share poems, 
poem books, poetry ideas, and friendship.
 
 
Sorry for my late arrival on Saturday morning to Spiritual Journey Thursday and Poetry Friday. I have paid close attention to the events of Holy Week from the New Testament this week. Ruth invited us to write about Maundy Thursday or about the origins of one of our spiritual practices for Spiritual Journey Thursday. My first thought was to write about the weekly practice of communion or sacrament as it is commonly referred to in my faith community. Keep reading to see how I arrived at worship through music as a spiritual practice that has blessed my life.
 
One of my favorite movies, "Places in the Heart," is set during the the depression in central Texas. My mother lived through this difficult time as a child in southeastern Oklahoma. The scenes of cotton picking stick in my mind because my own mother used to talk about picking cotton. These scenes helped me see the reality of the arduous work of picking cotton. This depiction of hard work in the face of extreme difficulty during the depression, a time that my own mother lived through, seemed to be reason enough for me to love the movie. But it's the final scene that has stayed in my memory for almost forty years. Here's a synopsis of that scene: "The story ends, as it began, with community and in the midst of prayer. In a highly symbolic and imaginary scene, communion is passed among the assembled congregants at the church, hand to hand and mouth to mouth, between both the living and the deceased. The last line of the film is spoken by Wylie to Royce Spalding, 'Peace of God.'  The film closes with all the characters gathered together in church singing in unison."
 
As I watched this final scene of the movie, I realized that this community partaking of the Lord's emblems together stayed in my memory because of the music. As the scene opens, we hear the song, "This is My Story." And then as the congregation passes and partakes of the emblems of the Lord, we hear another hymn: "I Come to the Garden Alone," (a hymn sung at my father's funeral). Neither of these hymns is in the hymnals that I've known and loved my entire life, but they are stitched into my being from hearing my mother sing. I was blessed by a mother who sang hymns while she cooked, while she ironed, while she cleaned, while she gardened. The words of hymns brought solace and comfort and joy and were a living presence and testimony of my mother's faith in God.

Another key person who influenced my love of the hymns was Edna Wilson, our Sunday School chorister when I was growing up. Each month during Sunday School, we had a practice hymn. Sister Wilson made us stand up to sing and encouraged us to look up from our hymnals and memorize the words of the hymn. Hymns are one of my favorite forms of poetry.  I have a very large arsenal of hymns in my long term memory. 
 
As a child, I chose a favorite hymn, "I Stand All Amazed," as part of the program for my baptism. If you're not familiar with it, you might enjoy this performance by Tyler Perry with many scenes from the life of Christ depicted in the video.
 
During Holy Week, as I have studied the events of this significant week, I have been  encouraged to listen to more hymns throughout my day. What a blessing it has been to tune my heart to the hymns placed there by a mother who sang and by Sister Wilson who encouraged us to memorize the words! This Easter Sunday I'll be in the choir singing "Behold the Wounds in Jesus Hands" and  "God So Loved the World." I hope one of our congregational songs will be "He Is Risen" or "Rejoice the Lord is King." When you leave a comment, tell me if you have a favorite hymn stitched in your heart.